tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410199809757251187.post5808968217373918131..comments2023-04-02T10:11:57.245-04:00Comments on meanwhile...: What I Want: Part TwoNellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02006026922416983261noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410199809757251187.post-91313053013517201232008-03-12T00:08:00.000-04:002008-03-12T00:08:00.000-04:00I love how he was able to get right to the heart o...I love how he was able to get right to the heart of the issue. And it sounds like he's right. Much of your worries do sound like they stem from guilt. <BR/><BR/>I would feel the same way. But it sounds like he fully supports your dreams. And that makes me like the guy even more!Cathy, Amy and Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01472486650115997239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410199809757251187.post-11527550306127724132008-03-11T21:18:00.000-04:002008-03-11T21:18:00.000-04:00Guilt is a sneaky SOB, and it does come with doubl...Guilt is a sneaky SOB, and it does come with double standards. I moved from my home of 25 years to a place where I knew no one, had no friends, and hadn't ever even seen where I would be living so my husband could go to grad school.<BR/>I considered taking a night class where he would have to come home early from school one night a week for eight weeks. I didn't end up doing it, because I felt guilty. <BR/>And now I regret it, even Cody was behind me.<BR/>Your husband will adapt, your family will adapt, you will be happy.<BR/>And if mama's happy, everybody's happy.moosh in indy.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12536663032282865725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410199809757251187.post-45183788476103092792008-03-11T12:55:00.000-04:002008-03-11T12:55:00.000-04:00i can see how you would feel guilty. I feel guilty...i can see how you would feel guilty. I feel guilty whenever i advance in something... It's great though, that you were able to get to this discovery together without all of the drama that sometimes happen when couples "talk". you know?Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09505420894898738638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410199809757251187.post-20938368540852442212008-03-11T10:20:00.000-04:002008-03-11T10:20:00.000-04:00I can see how you might feel guilty. Not that you...I can see how you might feel guilty. Not that you should feel guilty, but I think I'd feel the same way. <BR/><BR/>Tate and I have had similar Talks. I know that he feels guilty for moving us for the betterment of my career. I won't lie and say that I don't sometimes feel resentful, but it's what's best for our family.<BR/><BR/>I think the pursuit of your education will be what's best for your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com